Are you and your little ones considering a different approach to learning and schooling? I didn’t really consider homeschooling from the get-go. It took me some time back then to adapt and accept that our highly energetic and spirited toddler needed a different approach to learning.
As someone who grew up around the transition of our world to the digital era, you would think utilizing devices would be a breeze for me, but you couldn’t be more wrong. Josiah had ZERO interest in the typical TECH and gadgets that most kids his age would be engaged in. I tried to use the iPad with the “Baby Shark” game to take a quick shower while he was sitting right in front of me, and he would throw the whole device and wail. Those moments would later on affect our decision to homeschool.
Our WHY
Before we officially got a diagnosis that he also has ADHD, I was not aware that it is recognized as a “learning disability,” given that I was practically raised in the Philippines, even though I was born in the US. So, the whole thing is new to me.
DID YOU KNOW?
- ADHD officially became a recognized diagnosis in the late 1980s.
- ADHD was officially recognized as a disability in the United States when the Americans with Disabilities Act (ADA) was passed in 1990.
If we’re being honest here, this generation hits “extra different” for a millennial mom like me. All the devices and tech available to kids at such a young age are surprising. Maybe it’s just me because I was nowhere around any PC (personal computer) until I was 14. Yet children in the United States are introduced to computers in early elementary school (kindergarten), around ages 5–8. They can also start learning basic computer skills as early as preschool. This is NOT an advanced approach. This is apparently the norm and is expected of kids. Whether you’re trying to help your kid get a headstart, catch up, stay afloat, unschooling, or whatever your reason is to begin homeschooling … know that I am here to support your journey.
The homeschooling life: no more rushing in the morning, no more school drop-offs, and definitely no more packed lunches. Sounds interesting? It sure is! It’s just you, your child, and a new learning approach. Exciting? Yes. Overwhelming? Totally! I won’t make it seem like this will be a walk in the park because it is more like a walk inside Jurassic Park.
Truthfully, homeschooling isn’t for everyone. But don’t panic. Homeschooling isn’t as scary as it sounds—just a little bit. This is why it is important to plan accordingly, have the right resources, and have a support system before jumping in.
If you’re considering homeschooling but don’t know where to start, you’re in the right place. This guide will walk you through the basics—without the fluff, the hype, or the “you must do it this way” nonsense. Just real, honest talk about what works.
What Is Homeschooling Really?
Forget the image of kids sitting at a desk from 8 to 3 with a whiteboard-wielding mom at the front. Homeschooling is different for every family. It can happen at the kitchen table, in the backyard, or even at the grocery store.
What really matters is the “GOAL,” which is teaching kids in a way that fits their learning styles, interests, and family values.
Some families follow structured curriculums. Others lean into unschooling, where learning is child-led. Most land somewhere in between. The good news? You don’t have to pick one method forever. Homeschooling is flexible.
But Wait—Is Homeschooling Legal?
Yes, but the rules depend on where you live. Some states barely check-in, while others require paperwork, portfolios, and testing. Before you start, check your local homeschooling laws. You don’t want a surprise visit from an education official asking for records you didn’t know you needed.
Can I Really Teach My Kid?
You already have. You taught them to talk, walk, and (hopefully) put their shoes on the right feet. Teaching academics isn’t much different. You don’t need a teaching degree—you need patience, curiosity, and the ability to Google things when you get stuck.
There are endless resources to help. Online programs, library books, co-ops, tutors—whatever works for your family. And guess what? Teachers Google things too.
What About Socialization?
Ah, the classic question. People picture homeschooled kids as socially awkward hermits who struggle to make eye contact. In reality, homeschooled kids actually interact with people of all ages, not just their peers in their classroom.
Playdates, co-ops, sports, community events—there are plenty of ways for homeschooled kids to make friends and learn social skills. Some families even joke that their kids are “too social” because they’re always out doing something.
Choosing a Homeschooling Style
No two homeschool families are the same. Here are a few common approaches:
- Traditional: Follows a structured curriculum similar to public school.
- Unschooling: Child-led learning, following their interests.
- Charlotte Maso: Literature-based with nature studies and fine arts.
- Montessori: Hands-on learning with a focus on independence.
- Eclectic: Mix-and-match approach using various styles and resources.
You don’t have to commit to one method forever. Try different things and see what clicks.
Where Do I Get Curriculum?
Some parents buy full curriculums. Others piece things together from free resources. Here are some options:
- All-in-One Programs: Companies like Time4Learning, The Good and the Beautiful, and Oak Meadow offer complete curriculums.
- Online Resources: Websites like Khan Academy, Outschool, and Coursera provide free or affordable lessons.
- Library & Bookstore: Many families rely on library books and workbooks from bookstores.
- DIY Approach: Some parents create their own lesson plans using free resources.
No one curriculum works for everyone. If something isn’t working, switch it up.
A Day in the Life of a Homeschooler
No, you don’t need to recreate a school schedule at home. Some families do “school” for a few hours in the morning and have the rest of the day free. Others break learning into chunks throughout the day.
Here’s an example:
- 8:30 AM – Breakfast & morning read-aloud
- 9:00 AM – Math lesson (with snacks, obviously)
- 10:00 AM – Nature walk & science discussion
- 11:00 AM – Writing practice or journaling
- 12:00 PM – Lunch & free play
- 1:00 PM – History through a documentary or hands-on project
- 2:00 PM – Art, music, or another creative activity
It’s not about filling time—it’s about meaningful learning. Some days will be structured, and others might be messy and spontaneous. That’s okay.
Homeschooling on a Budget
Worried about costs? You don’t need to spend thousands on materials. Some budget-friendly options:
- Free online resources (Khan Academy, PBS Kids, etc.)
- Used curriculum sales (Check Facebook groups & homeschool swaps)
- Library books instead of buying new ones
- DIY supplies (Use what you have before buying fancy materials)
- Community programs (Many offer free or low-cost classes)
Handling the Hard Days
Not every day will be Instagram-worthy. Some days, math will end in tears (theirs or yours). Some days, you’ll question if you made the right choice. That’s normal.
On tough days:
- Take a break. Go outside, play a game, or just breathe.
- Remember why you started. Keep a note somewhere about your reason for homeschooling.
- Connect with other homeschoolers. Venting to someone who gets it helps.
- Lower your expectations. Learning doesn’t always look like worksheets and perfect projects.
Will My Kid Be Okay?
Yes. Homeschooling is not about creating a perfect learning experience. It’s about raising a curious, capable, and confident person who knows how to learn.
Your child will be okay. So will you.
Final Thoughts
Starting homeschooling feels big, but you don’t have to figure everything out today. Take it step by step. Try things. Adjust. Find what works for your family.
And when people ask, “But what about socialization?” just smile and remind them that learning happens everywhere—not just inside a classroom.
Have questions? Drop them in the comments. Let’s figure this out together.
